Ralph Waldo Emerson's words, "It's not the destination, it's the journey," resonate especially in athletics, where the path isn't always a direct line. Most athletes experience peaks and valleys, twists, and turns along their journey.
My childhood dream was to compete at the collegiate level, initially envisioning it with basketball. However, throughout my high school years, my passion shifted towards tennis. Despite four successful years on my varsity tennis team, I didn't receive any offers from colleges. Instead, I made the decision to attend a two-year college to focus on my physical, emotional, and personal growth. Those two years became a crucial period of development, preparing me for the challenges ahead both on the court and in the classroom. My journey was not what I imagined as a young athlete but it was one of the most rewarding to date.
"Signing day," which has gained popularity in recent decades, has passed. However, Not every athlete competing collegiately next year participated. Not being part of signing day does not mean the destination is no longer in reach. To all of our athletes and their parents, I recommend embracing the of the journey. The process itself, with its lessons, growth, and experiences, is just as valuable and potentially more so than the ultimate destination. Enjoy every moment on the court, field, or in the pool, regardless of the route taken. Enjoy the journey, stay dedicated to improvement, and appreciate the lessons it offers.